Impact
play. What is that? Why does The Queen enjoy it so much?
I'm
going to start you off with two links. I started off wanting to give
you a definition. "Impact play" isn't a term that gets used
much in my household. My Master does not say "I want to engage
in impact play now."- no, He throws me down on the bed, binds me
spread eagle using the under-the-bed-bondage system (I think this one
from Spencer's Gifts is the one my Master bought
http://www.spencersonline.com/product/Ss-Pb-Under-Bed-Restraint-Kit/
). Now for non-item links. Sadly it looks like nothing new has been
done on this site since 2008 http://www.differentequals.com/
. However, instead of using Wikipedia.com, this is a site written by
BDSM practitioners for BDSM practitioners. They have a wide variety
of articles, both from Dominant and submissive perspectives. Here's a
link to the glossary they'd presented:
http://www.differentequals.com/glossary.html
. Now mind you- unlike Wikipedia.com they don't have impact play as a
term, you have to take the time to read things like "beating,"
"caning," "whipping" etc separately. Okay, so if
you're a complete novice to BDSM, go start at the Wiki-
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Impact_play
. There's even some NSFW pictures to look at.
Now
impact play seems a no brainer when educating about BDSM, as so many
of the stereotypes about BDSM surround impact play. Spanking with the
hand, a paddle, using a crop, a flogger, a cane, a spatula. Yes, a
spatula lol. "Pervertibles"- items not originally meant for
BDSM use but put to it- is a term coined by slave David Stein (wow
the things you learn :D http://spankingart.org/wiki/Pervertible
) Of course there's also hair brushes- like a good thick paddle
brush- you know, I was amused to see them used in domestic discipline
fiction.
In
"Out of the Night: Book One," this interaction occurs
between Raanan and Vala during the period of time she's given to ask
questions of The Queen's slaves before he formally collars her:
Not
ready yet to give up teasing The Queen, Vala asked the room in
general, "Is intercourse ever part of a session?"
The
Queen's eyes closed to slits.
Hm,
I wonder if I can tease him until it gets an orgy started, Vala
thought.
"Of
course, silly girl." Raanan winked at Vala. "If a Dom gets
aroused when beating a slave, why wouldn't he or she use that slave?
I love to use an ass I've just made red with my hand."
I'm
sure at some point, I've had The Queen joke about the benefits of
"playing" in one's home, rather than in a public space.
Indeed, my Master and I rarely engage in BDSM activities like impact
play in public play spaces because He and I don't care to separate
those activities from intercourse.
One
thing about impact play- I've found that people not into BDSM often
fail to understand that being hit any old time still isn't
interesting or acceptable to people into BDSM. If someone other than
my Master hit me, I'd be rather angry, react rather extreme
hostility- it's His collar around my neck, not anyone else's. And
levels of activity that send my orgasms into higher intensity don't
feel so good when I'm standing at the sink doing dishes and my Master
out of nowhere does them- nah, He doesn't generally do that, although
He'll engage in lighter levels of play whenever possible.
So
The Queen agreed to write a paragraph for me and here he is:
Throughout
Vala's Story, Joelle has shown me engage in a wide variety of impact
play with my slaves. With my store rooms of BDSM implements, I
admittedly have more choices than your average BDSM practitioner. Do
not think for one second that makes me neglect my hands, or for that
matter, think that I am better than those with only a small toy bag.
Playing around the BDSM as a teen, before I was old enough for much
more than fumbling, not old enough to get into stores where I could
buy "the real thing," I found that I actually enjoyed
being spanked, being whipped, WHEN IT WAS MY CHOICE! This was not
anything like the abuse from my useless mother. But oh, when us "rent
boys" would enjoy each others' company between tricks. Then as
my dear friend Lady Audrey helped me out of that scene, as she helped
me forward into healthy, consensual BDSM. And having Tommy as an
adult, and at my mercy. Gods, it was so good to see his skin color as
I whipped him, hear his moans at the experience, feel the power
rushing through my body knowing that he was submitting to what I
wanted to do to him. While that amazing feeling of power is there
with everything I do in dominating my slaves, I find impact play
causes some of the most satisfying releases of such energy. As far as
BDSM activities go, I think that impact play- at least for me- has
such a fulling power exchange is because it is one of those things
most unacceptable outside BDSM. Of course, I always enjoy how the
diversity of skin colors in my stable allows me to enjoy just that
many more shades of skin colored by impact play.
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