tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260086536667952678.post3383197090746949232..comments2023-07-05T10:19:29.688-04:00Comments on Joelle Casteel- author of bdsm erotica: What sort of sex do you like? My thoughts on turn ons, offs, especially in relationshipsJoelle Casteelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06916035794147846651noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260086536667952678.post-13347356613706142452013-12-12T12:07:58.415-05:002013-12-12T12:07:58.415-05:00lol rip them off :D idk, Mary. I continue to ask &...lol rip them off :D idk, Mary. I continue to ask "why is it embarrassing?" Because I don't get. thanks goodness we can all find something we like :)Joelle Casteelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06916035794147846651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260086536667952678.post-52232841888045195812013-12-12T11:54:25.582-05:002013-12-12T11:54:25.582-05:00Very interesting, Joelle. I find it embarrassing w...Very interesting, Joelle. I find it embarrassing when the hero lowers the heroines panties to her knees or ankles and makes her stay like that. I'd rather he rip them off...lol.But that's just me. I still love spanking stories. I figure what I like someone else may not but that's okay:)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00415912513807382320noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260086536667952678.post-72883437208055974412013-12-12T11:06:24.666-05:002013-12-12T11:06:24.666-05:00very true, Patricia. It's not at all that simp...very true, Patricia. It's not at all that simple and something we like one day, we might not like the next. And definitely on the "living as one's characters." In the side plot with Abrecan, I've had that because what he needs as a person with an abuse history and drug abuse issues, he needs very specific things from his dom that I'm not interested in, except in fiction. That's coming in my 3rd book; it'll be interesting to see what you think of the scene, with the enema scene with Zack and Cassidy. I still think fondly on Zack's aftercare for that scene- he was the best dom.Joelle Casteelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06916035794147846651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260086536667952678.post-1270863270556936182013-12-12T10:44:58.726-05:002013-12-12T10:44:58.726-05:00Interesting topic, Joelle. It's funny, certain...Interesting topic, Joelle. It's funny, certain things that I write into stories, I would never try or be inclined to even watch but because I live my characters as I write them, I extrapolate that they like what they're getting ... or not, as the enema scene in Grit between Cassidy and Zack proves. Cassidy didn't exactly like it, but Zack knew he needed hard play that night to blow off steam from a bad scene that he witnessed as an LAPD detective. I wouldn't be into it either but it was necessary for the plot and for those characters. <br /><br />A while back, I watched a scene with my very favorite MM porn actor Arpad Miklos (who committed suicide last Feb) where he has this scene with another actor who sucks his gorgeous toes. I'm not one that's into feet but his were pretty. In that moment, in that scene, it was a turn on because you could see how much the guys liked it. Arpad went right to his favorite past time, rimming, afterward so he was really ramped up. Sometimes turn ons surprise meAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03279024953860380125noreply@blogger.com