tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260086536667952678.post891607777663296921..comments2023-07-05T10:19:29.688-04:00Comments on Joelle Casteel- author of bdsm erotica: Anal as a punishment?Joelle Casteelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06916035794147846651noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260086536667952678.post-21462818726225914222013-10-24T10:41:13.467-04:002013-10-24T10:41:13.467-04:00thanks for the comment, Suzy. I'm glad that it...thanks for the comment, Suzy. I'm glad that it popped in my stats that there'd been a comment on this thread. Yeah, it's complex with anal. Of course we each bring our own histories to it, but like with many sexual things, I think there's a lot of societal judgments and teaching on this- that I don't feel are necessarily correct. Yeah, figging ooo. I invited Natasha Knight specifically to write a post on it. I just don't get it. I don't even get that "tingle" response to the idea of it.Joelle Casteelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06916035794147846651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260086536667952678.post-49802334112643148782013-09-21T12:38:06.450-04:002013-09-21T12:38:06.450-04:00Hi Joelle,
I saw your original post on SFiction t...Hi Joelle,<br /><br />I saw your original post on SFiction that you'd have this. I so enjoyed reading this post sweetie. It's funny, I um well without TMI I two write quite a few anal sex scenes in my books. I think a majority of writers like to write a majority of what they know and research what they don't. Perhaps you are right that society deems it as dirty or whatever...but I find it odd that more women don't enjoy it. But perhaps you are correct it is the enjoyment of being submissive...I never thought of that. (although...ok now the idea of TMI swirls in my head lol)<br /><br />And as far punishments...figging is a term I had only learned a few months ago. I dont think I would ever want that...thank you...like soaping..no thanks. LOL<br /><br />That being said, reading about it gives me a little tingle. So thanks for the post on this so-called forbidden act.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00307063812313049163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260086536667952678.post-2269386582580836822013-09-19T23:04:31.664-04:002013-09-19T23:04:31.664-04:00thanks, LA. I was laughing after re-reading someth...thanks, LA. I was laughing after re-reading something I said to Tara in reply; my Master was too funny, after hearing some explanation, He asked, "Are you talking about anything but me on your blog?" I laughed and mentioned tomorrow.Joelle Casteelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06916035794147846651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260086536667952678.post-25915784509914490762013-09-19T15:56:16.640-04:002013-09-19T15:56:16.640-04:00thanks for the comment, Renee. yeah, I can picture...thanks for the comment, Renee. yeah, I can picture the turn on. I guess my spanking desires just work differentJoelle Casteelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06916035794147846651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260086536667952678.post-25607982223825022392013-09-19T15:09:27.337-04:002013-09-19T15:09:27.337-04:00What an open and honest post Joelle. I enjoy seein...What an open and honest post Joelle. I enjoy seeing anal as a punishment sometimes. Like Renee mentioned, it's the pain and pleasure euphoria. When I read or write about certain anal activities like say... figging... I really enjoy seeing it in my mind, but I know I would not like feeling that burn in my bum for real. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10986881819085040884noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260086536667952678.post-31072402705765017792013-09-19T14:14:38.966-04:002013-09-19T14:14:38.966-04:00I think you're certainly not the only one who ...I think you're certainly not the only one who has that reaction around ANY kind of sex being punishment. I think it's just that anything on/around/in the ass is so erotic to a spanko, and the idea of punishment is so erotic, that combining the two is a double-yum. <br /><br />But I definitely definitely understand how it might bother you. <br /><br />Great post, JOelle!Renee Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01414212384941364401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260086536667952678.post-70805882779230939142013-09-19T13:22:54.935-04:002013-09-19T13:22:54.935-04:00Yes, Tara, on spankings too... I struggle with wor...Yes, Tara, on spankings too... I struggle with words. I think I've even told you once how my Master'll joke that He won't spank me because I'm bratting. However, it came to me as I was talking about Maren's comment on my last Saturday Spankings with a BR- often it's a matter of degree. In the scene, Tommy is paddling Prisca to prepare her for an even more intense punishment from The Queen. One of the ways in which he differentiates enjoyment and punishment is to paddle Prisca's calves. Personally, I can't imagine ever wanting my Master to paddle my calves- He'll use His favorite toy- a beater stick- on them sometimes and I swear, it's all about His enjoyment at that moment... if I was a guy, my cock would go soft at calf beating.Joelle Casteelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06916035794147846651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260086536667952678.post-82609723955306355602013-09-19T13:11:33.497-04:002013-09-19T13:11:33.497-04:00I have to agree with you, spanking and anal play d...I have to agree with you, spanking and anal play definitely seem to go hand in hand. But why as a punishment? But then why spanking as a punishment too? I know it hurts, but isn't part of the pleasure the pain? Maybe calling these things punishment just alleviates our own reservations and guilt feelings? If it's a punishment then you just have to endure rather than feel guilty about actively seeking it? <br />Just a few of my random thoughts...<br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05664433877029404270noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260086536667952678.post-33164748836825399282013-09-19T09:30:55.642-04:002013-09-19T09:30:55.642-04:00you too, Sue. :) Can't wait to read your snipp...you too, Sue. :) Can't wait to read your snippet for Saturday Spankings- I'm still working through last weeks- looking forward to yours.<br /><br />yeah, that community center made the difference for me in so many ways. The lengths I went through to get there :D If I was lucky, I could go with a friend who had a car- that meant for a 30 mins drive. But if I needed to use a combination of walking and buses, it turned into hours of endeavor. However, at least we have the internet now. That's at least something, and more than I had as a teen.Joelle Casteelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06916035794147846651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260086536667952678.post-89268809668207131052013-09-19T09:14:54.233-04:002013-09-19T09:14:54.233-04:00Glad you lived near a LGBT community center and we...Glad you lived near a LGBT community center and were able to get the support you needed as a teen. I don't think my area has anything like that anywhere nearby, which is sad.<br /><br />Thanks for the mention, and I hope you have a good weekend!Sue Lyndonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05420556675096411446noreply@blogger.com