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Tuesday, June 3, 2014

#SpanksA2Z and #Taboo2sday ... C is for Corner Time

http://tdbloghop.blogspot.com/

So this isn't exactly following the rules, but since this is taking but Taboo Tuesday and the A to Z Spanking Challenge. So at the bottom, you'll have 2 sets of links to follow, one for each blog hop. Corner Time is a normal thing in spanking fiction and certainly a taboo idea to some.

http://spankingromance.com/the-june-spanking-a-z-challenge-spanka2z/

I don't remember if corner time was specifically in Sue Lyndon's "Dark Without Me"- my first "spanking" book that opened me to this whole genre that is sometimes, often "enough," sometimes, often overlaps with BDSM. Wherever it was that I first saw corner time, I'm sure I must have LOL'd. Yes, I'm a lifestyle submissive, but I'm also one who has the run of the household, making sure things are done as my Master wants it. I have a dog and a teen in addition to a current-injured Master to tend to. Now if you read "b is for buffer," you may also see another reason why the idea of corner time amuses me- I have no panties to have left at my knees or my ankles while I push my nose into the corner so I can be embarrassed/learn my lesson. And standing nude in a corner? Except for in a theoretical, intellectual exercise, I don't really understand why that'd be embarrassing. I know why it *should* be embarrassing, but I'm not embarrassed for any of those reasons.


17 comments:

  1. Corner time is so hot in books! Mmmmm :)
    Hubby has put me in the corner a few times. Not quite as hot, but it still changed my attitude real quick.
    I wonder what it would be like to do it nude.
    ???
    interesting.
    :)

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    1. yeah, I wonder about it in the nude too, what it would be like for someone who's not clothing optional like me. I find it interesting that it seems the taboo of "I'm an adult, why are you putting me in the corner like this?" seems to make it taboo and arousing- both in the books and for some spankos in fantasy & IRL. It just doesn't do it for me though, in books or IRL. Unless an author does a really good time in the spankee's perspective. I'm not sure why that is because not quite corner time, but being told to go into one position like that, I find totally hot in BDSM erotica. Like I have this situation with being commanded to a position that makes up 3 separate scenes in my 3rd book that's way totally hot to me. thanks for the comment, Katherine.

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    2. lol I can't imagine doing corner time with clothes on. It's always been 'in the nude' for me. It's part of the release factor. Take the clothes *the world* off and be who I really am.

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    3. interesting, Thianna- that's not at all how I think of clothes. They're just fabric to me

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  2. Lol, a bare bottom in a corner when you're a naturist really isn't the same. Joelle pushes the envelope again! I love visiting here.

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    1. thanks for the comment, Tara. Funny you use the term "naturist"- of all things, it's a word I'm coming to terms with still 'cause it's not something I'm 24/7. like atm, I'm wearing an "Alice in wonderland" t (the Cheshire cat of course :D) and gray sweats- because well, I'm still having my period and I feel blech. but yeah, being nude just isn't embarrassing to me.

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  3. Maybe your punishment would be to wear several layers of clothes? :)

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    1. lmao, when I told my Master, He snorted. I used to do the modest dress actually, somewhere between hiding my body because I hated my breasts (I think this summer marks 6 years post-reduction) and I was still trying to make my way in the local homeschool community, which is horrendously, stereotypically the average person's idea of conservative Christians home educating to protect their children from the sinful world- so not my perspective as a home educator ;D

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  4. I'm of two minds when it comes to corner time. On the one hand, on its own, it can sometimes be really effective for me in that it can be very calming and help me to settle down. On the other hand, used after a punishment or as an extension of one the way it often is in spanking books is an absolute hard limit for me. I've tried it, but without fail, it ends up feeling like a rejection and sending me to be very bad place in my head. It doesn't bother me on paper, in a book or whatever, for a character to use it that way, just don't ever expect me to do it.

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    1. thanks for the comment, Ruth. I can see that, using corner time as a punishment, would also feel like a rejection for me. That sounds lovely though, the notion that it can be calming. I think maybe for me as a bipolar rapid cycler, I can't picture the calming effect personally. Even when I'm not particularly manic, my mind often races. Corner time would just give me more time for my thoughts to spiral out of control.

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    2. I love the way you put that, Ruth. I've never had a top try to do that as a punishment, but I think I'd have the same response - Rejection, which would be demoralizing.

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  5. In our house, crowded like yours I guess, corner time is not punishment, it's ... foreplay I guess. I love the anticipation. I love the humiliation, if you don't mind me saying so. I, we I guess really like that part and it is always in our " play" , sonehow.
    I really like reading your posts Joelle

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    1. thanks for the comment, Han. as foreplay, I guess I can understand corner time. LOL though I look around my living room trying to find a corner my Master could use, if He even got it into His head to try.

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  6. No corner time for me. I refuse to do it and wouldn't do any good, I'm a daydreamer and I'd just be plotting the next scene in my work in progress.

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    1. lol Holla- I can imagine doing that too! My mind would be everywhere but where it was "supposed" to be. Although I do have one short called "Proper Attitude" that includes rough anal sex and my Master saying "You had a bad expression while you were doing the dishes" :D

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  7. Corner time has never been used as a punishment for me, so the humiliation thing I will admit confuses me to. Corner time has always been about release: release of stress, release of worry, release of the world, and a total embracing of who I am at my core.

    I love corner time :D

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    1. thanks for sharing that, Thianna. It is nice to think of corner time as a release like that

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